After last week’s post about the blogiversary collaboration with Unrepentant Fatty, and, after much wrangling with the internet sprites, I’ve finally managed to collect and organize some of the really great lists that readers sent to me into something resembling a cogent blog. All of the lists are available below the cut in what is … Continue reading »
Telling Tales: Writing fiction
This post is only going to be a short one and as with the last, it’s a question for you all. As some of you man know, I write a little F/m fiction in my spare time and post it around about the internet on both of my tumblr accounts (Domina Desires and Lipstick and … Continue reading »
Followers! We need YOU!
Yep. As part of the blogiversary Lipstick and Ligature has teamed up with Unrepentant Fatty to compile something of a kinky research project. The idea is that we need kinky people (that would be you) to send us the ten things that you look for in a submissive partner if you’re a dominant woman or in a dominant partner … Continue reading »
Blogiversary!!
Today is the 1 year anniversary of Lipstick and Ligature’s wordpress incarnation. I don’t think anyone is more surprised than me. I never thought I would have enough to say about kink never mind that anyone would actually want to read it. But, it seems, there are a few of you. So thank you, one … Continue reading »
How To Date: Or Stating The Obvious 101
Okay, I think we need to have a little chat. It’s about dominant women and how to find them. I get emails about this all the time and guys leave comments on this blog asking the same. All. The. Time. In order to find yourself a dominant woman you will need to wait until the … Continue reading »
Suspension?
WordPress is playing up and appears to have suspended this blog. That said, I can apparently upload new posts such as this one from the “New Post” button on the top right of the screen. Not entirely sure what’s going on. Hopefully, service will resume shortly. Thanks. Amy.
Long Time Coming: In Which I Come Out of Hibernation
It’s been a really long time since I’ve written and I feel a little bad about it but in other ways I don’t. Since December, I’ve had problems at home – both of my parents have been ill, I’ve been busy with work, life happened – you know, the usual things. But, most … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink: Video: How Open Are You About Your Kinks?
Well, the final video for 30 Days of Kink is now up over on Tumblr. It deals with how open I am about my kinks which, aside from the internet, is not at all unless I am explicitly asked by someone. I’m not embarrassed, but I do think it’s important to be sensitive and mindful … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink – What I want
Here are the next five questions. All of which seem to focus around wants and desires. What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? I think that all relationships need open communication and trust. In BDSM it’s reiterated constantly and that’s no bad … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink – Bumper Post – Days 15-20
As discussed here, I’ve decided to put the last 15 days of 30DoK into three/four easy and managable posts. Partially for expediency and partially because I think a lot of these questions overlap into an on running discussion of kink. Day 15: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to … Continue reading »