The next two questions on the list are as follows: Day 13: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink – Day 12 – Favourite BDSM Book
I’ve actually already written about my difficulty in trying to find quality BDSM – and in particular F/m – fiction. It is why I started writing my own. I don’t know why it is so hard to find but until I do I rather like these. It is my ultimate goal to get one (or … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink – Day 11 – Misconceptions
30 Days of Kink – Day 11 – Misconceptions Here is the link to the second video I’ve done as part of 30 Days of Kink. I discuss how misconceptions make things difficult for everyone and how they do more harm than good. NSFW.
30 Days of Kink – Day 10 – What Are Your Hard Limits?
Hard limits for me fall into several groups. Firstly, the obvious stuff that is just a no because it’s morally/ethically wrong: Bestiality, necrophelia, non-consent, underage people etc. I think that’s a given and I feel like I should even have to mention that stuff but there it is anyway, just to be sure. Then there … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink: Day 9 – Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
I’m Your Man – Leonard Cohen The first place I heard this song in full was the final credits of the film Secretary. Aside from loving that film, I think that this song may be the only song I can think of that I find to be lyrically perfect. I love the sentiment of … Continue reading »
Day 8: Post An Image That You Find Erotic
I decided to pick this photo because I felt that the more explicitly sexual is perhaps too obvious. I wanted to find an image that gave some indication of why I find D/s so appealing. I think that the look in this guy’s eyes is very nearly it. What is the most erotic thing of … Continue reading »
30 Days of kink: Day 7
Obviously, because of my limited experience this question is difficult to answer because I’ve not actually used any “serious” BDSM toys. I don’t like the idea of having kinky activities centred around toys and I don’t really get the toy snobbery that seems prevalent in the kink scene. I think the most powerful tool that … Continue reading »
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
I don’t think that I have any kinks that are weird – or at least not to the majority of BDSM-ers. The great thing is that fantasies mean you have literally unlimited possibilities and you can do anything with anyone at any time and no one gets into trouble or is seriously injured. You … Continue reading »
Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?
My first kinky experience was with an ex-boyfriend I was with a couple of years back. He wasn’t kinkily inclined and when I first told him that I’d like to play about with it he wasn’t interested at first. Eventually, we did play a little and I was acutely aware of not being too rough … Continue reading »
30 Days of Kink: Days 3 & 4 – Video edition
To make things a little more exciting, I thought I’d do days 3&4 of the 30 Days of Kink writing exercise as a video. I actually made this last night, but it took about a million years to load. It can be found here. Day 5′s written entry will follow here later.
